Just a quick rant.
Alright, so one of my friends (we'll call him B) came out as being bisexual to another one of my friends (we'll call this one J), because B and J are very close friends and B trusts J quite a lot. However, J gets nervous and tells ALL of his friends about what happened, and they all find out about it before B is truly ready to tell them all.
B found out about this and was incredibly upset by this. I adore J a lot even after what we've been through and I felt horrible because he's done things like this quite a lot, so I quite honestly had to be very nasty to him about what happened because he's done it so many times and just never learned.
J started to feel bad about what happened, or at least said he did, so he even threatened to resort to self-harm over what happened in order to "prove that he was ashamed of what he did". I luckily managed to talk some sense into him and talked him out of it, but...
Good God I feel so stressed out right now...
Alright, so one of my friends (we'll call him B) came out as being bisexual to another one of my friends (we'll call this one J), because B and J are very close friends and B trusts J quite a lot. However, J gets nervous and tells ALL of his friends about what happened, and they all find out about it before B is truly ready to tell them all.
B found out about this and was incredibly upset by this. I adore J a lot even after what we've been through and I felt horrible because he's done things like this quite a lot, so I quite honestly had to be very nasty to him about what happened because he's done it so many times and just never learned.
J started to feel bad about what happened, or at least said he did, so he even threatened to resort to self-harm over what happened in order to "prove that he was ashamed of what he did". I luckily managed to talk some sense into him and talked him out of it, but...
Good God I feel so stressed out right now...