thanks for all this advice. honestly i think im doing really good. I'm not really automatically fogiving him but im not holding grudges. I've also learned a lot. School just started which is going to shakethings up a bit because of drama and what not but I'll try to manage and keep you guys up to date on whats happening and where we are. honestly Im over liking him. I see that there is no point in it. So I'm being more social and hanging with some of my other guy friends. Mostly I just hang and try not to worry to much because I believe that everything happens for a reason,