Definitely relax and don't stress over the small details. I just got married in May and it was stressful enough planning a wedding while in school 1000 miles away. However, my mom and I kept in contact about the details and it worked out fine. About a month before the wedding, we couldn't go a day without saying, "At the end of the day, you'll still be married!" Now that it's over, I kinda miss being a bride and miss the whole wedding day.