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bekahhzz

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hey, i need some advice..

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 6 months.. hes absolutely the most amazing guy ive ever been with. hes so sweet and just without a doubt amazing. he leaves for the airforce august 4th for basic.. and he will be gone for 2 months.. and then after that he leaves for tech school.. and then after that he leaves to get based somewhere..

we have talked about marriage and idk what to do. im only 18, and i know thats young, but i couldnt imagine being with anyone else. before i met him, i was with a guy for 2 years.. so ive been thru bad relationships.. but this one is so much different. i want to marry him, but im not sure if it is the right decision. i am going to college in august, and by the time he gets out of everything before he gets based, i will already have a semester done. and if i leave with him, they pay for my college. but in order to leave with him, we have to be married.

this is the biggest decision ive ever come accross...

any advice please?:)
 
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I think you should concentrate on getting through college. If you really believe he is the ONE, then waiting a bit longer isn't going to make much difference........yes you will miss each other but it's not forever !

Besides ..... if I have read this right and he is joining the forces then there is a pretty good chance that married or not you are going to have no choice but to spend long periods apart so imo it's better you find out now whether you can cope with that.

Tough call , but I really feel that you should wait
 
the chance of me seeing him for a while is very slim, after he leaves. he is getting based in guam.. and thats halfway around the world for me.. and he is serving for i think 8 years..

no matter what, or where i am, i am going to college.. whether its in guam or georgia. im going to finish college, and have a career.
 
Which is defiantely a smart decision because you need to also focus on your future but if you see him in it hold on to it.
Like I recently told you my bf moved away for school but we plan on keeping it long distance as we do see a future with one another. Goodluck :)
 
bekahhzz said:
hey, i need some advice..

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 6 months.. hes absolutely the most amazing guy ive ever been with. hes so sweet and just without a doubt amazing. he leaves for the airforce august 4th for basic.. and he will be gone for 2 months.. and then after that he leaves for tech school.. and then after that he leaves to get based somewhere..

we have talked about marriage and idk what to do. im only 18, and i know thats young, but i couldnt imagine being with anyone else. before i met him, i was with a guy for 2 years.. so ive been thru bad relationships.. but this one is so much different. i want to marry him, but im not sure if it is the right decision. i am going to college in august, and by the time he gets out of everything before he gets based, i will already have a semester done. and if i leave with him, they pay for my college. but in order to leave with him, we have to be married.

this is the biggest decision ive ever come accross...

any advice please?:)
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Just live your life, when he is gone do NOT purposely look for others but interact with others (men and women) and if something happens it happens but try to be faithful cause you never know how long he will be gone, he will change and he might not be the same person you fell in love with when he gets back.

I know considering I am 19 and I was with a guy for a year, engaged, prego and everything and we broke up (best thing that ever happened to me - breaking up) and now my boyfriend I am with is great. Been together almost 2 years and I hate to say it but if he left for the military I would do exactly what I told you to do. Even tho I love my boyfriend to death its life, I am 19, take my advice I know a little about it.

PM me if you wanna chat more.
 
You're young.
If you are meant to be together then you will end up together in the end.
Don't worry.
Stay strong.
 
I think it is not the right time to think the matter like that. You should concentrate on the study first and if he likes you then surely he will come back for you. That my promise. So don't worry for that because it is to early for that.
 
According to me you have to focus on your future career.You have to more concentrate rather than any other activities.You are in very little age for the marriage for with out divert your mind in this matter please more focus on the studies which will make your future bright.
 
marriage to a someone in the air force is hard as there is so much time apart and you always have to wonder about safety. if you're not completely comfortable about it, don't proceed, its your life as well
 
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18 years old?
You are too young to get married.
At least in my living place getting married at 18 is not lawful.
I think you should at least go through the college first.
Why want to rush into marriage.
You can still keep the relationship as you think he is awesome.
There is a long way to go for you ahead. Just be patient.
 
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