Boyfriend Visits

[laurilee]

My best friend and I have moved into our new two bedroom flat in which we live during term time (we are both university students). I have a boyfriend who lives a long way away from me and who my best friend met when I met him last summer, but hasn't seen him since, so she doesn't know him that well. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Before he visits, I want to make sure that my friend is comfortable with him staying at weekends but don't know how to go about doing it.

Any ideas?

 

[Chantilly]

Just talk to her about it. As long as you and your boyfriend respect her space and her things... I really don't see why it would be a problem.

 

[Nautica]

She's right, plus, you pay half the rent, right? Sounds like you and your boyfriend are doing really well, and it sounds like she will like him

 

[merisplit]

I don't really see a problem here..just give her enough space and ..uhmm..

don't be loud

 

[jasmine-sweetie]

Yeah, but be careful. You wouldn't want to upset her or anything. But yeah, as Mary said, just give her space.

-Jasmine

 

[Funkygirl]

Talk with your friend about it! I'm sure that she will be okey with that!
And talk with your boyfriend, too...Tell him that he must respect her...
U never know, maybe they become best buddy's!"

 

[Snowbaby]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Funkygirl @ Oct 7 2007, 10:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

And talk with your boyfriend, too...Tell him that he must respect her...

Great idea! Men must behave

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[Subby]

Pffft men who behave are overated

 

[Nautica]

I would also say, from my experience this weekend, don't have him come over too much, you will get tired of him and really really wish he would go home, even though he is a wonderful guy and all of that...

 

[Snowbaby]

Nautica, do you think I could get away with that with my hubby??