I am now 26 years of age and I have always wanted to start having children at the age of 23 but evidently, things didn't happen as planned. The person that I wanted to have a baby with for the past 10 years is now with someone else. I had never imagine sharing a child with anyone else. I am dating now but I don't love him enough to have children with him, but I really want to start a family. Should I wait until I find the right one or should I just start now? I feel as though I won't find the right one until I am in my 30s and having a baby at that age is ideal for me. I already have weight issues and I think it'll be harder to lose the baby weight at that age.