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I found out that a so called mate of mine has been slagging me off behind my back and saying things about my weigh and there is no way Im going to lose any weigh at all...I've had a feeling she is slagging me off for a while,but never been able to prove it until now.

She is over weigh herself but just picks on me and my weigh even though she knows all about my PolyCystic Ovaries(so knows the problems I have in losing the weigh).

My other mates say it is just because she is jealous as everyone talks to me because they want to and I can be myself...but she has people being nice just because she works behind the bar(in my local) and she is never herself.

I just wish she would back off and leave me alone...Im now beginning to doubt myself and its because of her...I hate it when people make you feel like that.

Sorry for posting this...I needed to get it off my chest as its been hurting me bad over the last couple of days.
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Never ever doubt yourself. You are doing this for yourself and don't let anyone tell you anything negative.

If she is saying stuff about you, take it with a pinch of salt, put it down to her not being a true friend, and sod her.

You think of YOU and don't listen to her or anyone else, except me
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hehe. It's what's on the inside that counts..... and if that were bad, would we be loving you like we do?
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Thanks Snowy...I know you are right...its just the wrong time of the month and I always feel bad about myself...I promise only to listen to you in future(don't think the hubby will like that as he says I should listen to him...
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I know how easy it is to let something that someone you regard as a friend says, to hurt so much.

Just bare in mind, you're married, so you can't be so bad
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you have loads of other friends, and you have us.

I've learnt the hard way that no one will put you first in this world, you have to do that yourself. And also, you have to be happy with yourself in order to be happy in life. Anyone who says negative things about you, simply isn't worth bothering over.
 
FooFoo on her. Normally I just find that persons insecurities and comment caually on that. Omg I never realized how mean that sounded. But some people are really hurtful. Like this one guy that has ED (erectile dysunction) and he was basically calling me a total slut, so during the conversation I was having at the table I slipped in the word "viagra" and "cealis" as many times as possible.
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Simple, yet highly effective. Of course Im in high school where all things are pretty immature. The "right" thing to do is probably just ignore her snarky comments and stay nice, but remain at a distance.
 
Thanks hun...but it is hard to ignore when you walk in your local pub to her talking about you...I'll get there...she is at the moment one of the most hated bar staff that works there...noone wants her to work there as she is a bitch to alot of people in there...she was even going to set fire to one of my mates hair.
 
Just a quick update...when I was away on holiday this so called mate was slagging other people off...2 of my mates and her partner had a go at her and said she is always doing that and its out of order...she now is being as nice as anything to me and even joined slimming world and is trying to be very supportive to me...this is weird,Im just waiting for the axe in the back...
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