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Purplex777

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Hello girls.. Please read, and help :( :(
Some months ago, This guy added me.. he wanted to be my friend.. He asked for my mobile number. I was crazy,stupid,idiotic at that moment, I don't know what I thought, and gave him my number and told him that he should never call, only text, He said ok.

Next, this guy said he loved me veryyyy much, he is the friend of a guy I know (family friend), and that guy gave him my e-mail adress.
So this guy who added me, was kinda sweet (I am attracted very easily.. grr) so I said to him "I'm starting to like you too..:blush:". Then later, after sometime, he was like "I'll tell u something, please please don't be sad and stay possitive about it.." I replied, "Alright.. what's wrong?"
He said" I'm so sorry, But I am not the guy you think I am..." and he told me that he was the guy who added me 2 years ago and I deleted him from my msn list 2 years ago because We had a fight, we were just friends. I was shocked like HELL. I replied "O-M-F-G... You are such a ...... uhh forget it :mad:" He replied again "Please Amber, I love you soo much.. I think about u every single day and bleh bleh".. I said please leave me alone for sometime. He didn't reply.

Then later, I went to me Kinda-friend's home (She is not my type.. I mean she talks to guys on net and all, and shouts at her mom and all.. so I didn't wanna be her good friend.) but she knew everything about that guy and all.. so she insisted me to call him at her home.. i was like "STFU DUDE.. you're outta your mind.." and she said "no amber!! I know u like him!! you can do it! dont be scared.." I was oh-ok.. I called.. he talked.. he apologized... And he asked me if I love him.. I was gone crazy, and I was talking to him as if he was my old friend.. I said YES, he said "you made my day".. but later, I figured out that he ain't a good guy..like, he is a bully and had gang members and he was a faliur and used to beat guys and then I thought "Im just 12".. so I told my neighbor (She is 18) about it.. she said "Amber, you are mad. just don't listen to anyone except me, I am advising for your good, go tell your mom and dad that a guy is disturbing you.." I agreed. I told my parents.. my parents and my eldest bro took my to my school to meet the principal, and by coincidence, that guy was standing there.. in the school!! We had a big fight, and all.. my mom grounded me, but I explained that i didnt do anything, so the prob was solved and he begged for forgivness from my bro. The case ended.

But later,, after a week or two, I still used to think about him.. I loved him.. and my stupid friend, she knew what happened with me, but she still sued to talk to him. so i called her and more of my friends over at my home for a party, so she signed in msn and he was online
I was like OMG..... NO..
and she was like "EEE!!! OMGOMG!!" i was like >.>
She told em that Shes at my home. he asked me "Amber, why did u delete me?" I said... I don't know.
And I, again am an idiot. I added him again and chatted for weeks without telling anyone.. and then I told him that please, we have to end this.. and I said "I love u" for the last time and blocked him without listening what he said.

Now, I miss him like helllllll.. I can't forget him.. my birythday is coming up (3oth July, Im turning 13.) and he said he'll remember it.. my bday is making me remember em again and again..

thanks for reading this much..

PLEASE HELP ME FORGET HIM!!!!!!!!!
 
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Please help me, girls.. I truly need some help here.. I know that the passage I gave above is too long and maybe you might get bored, But it's all about what has happened to me.. sad sad story :(
 
I promise you that you will forget him, you will move on. For now you need to cut all ties with him - change your cell phone number and esure no-one gives it to him. Don't log on to any sites that you know he is on, even delete your old profiles if you feel that strongly. You could block him on the sites and even report his messages as spam.

I was in a very abusive relationship for years and I now - 4 years on, am so much stronger both mentally and physically. Everyone can move on from anything - you just have to work at it.

Best of luck!
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (shine @ Jul 27 2008, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
I promise you that you will forget him, you will move on. For now you need to cut all ties with him - change your cell phone number and esure no-one gives it to him. Don't log on to any sites that you know he is on, even delete your old profiles if you feel that strongly. You could block him on the sites and even report his messages as spam.

I was in a very abusive relationship for years and I now - 4 years on, am so much stronger both mentally and physically. Everyone can move on from anything - you just have to work at it.

Best of luck![/b]
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Thanks a lot for replying, Shine :confetti:
Actually, I already did everything you mentioned above..
.I changed my e-mail address.
.I changed my mobile number.

But I am glad you helped, my friends still talk about him like "Remember that guy who...?"
So I will ask them to stop..


Thanks again!! *huggles* :gp:
 
be active in some organization,or be active in class more, or just do something, that is what i just did.

i made myself more busy..:)

now atleast am okay..:)

i hope u will too:)


lotsalove,
 
I didn't understand if you said ya'll dated....
Hun forreal, it's all just a puppy love crush. There's no doubt you'll get over him. Plus, you don't want to hang around someone like him. If he is in a gang and beats people, then there is no doubt that he might take a few swings at you.
 
Though it may seem chaste and not something you would want to hear... you are only 12 years old, going on 13.

Trust someone who met alot of idiot guys in all her 19 years of existence. That guy is absolutely WORTHLESS. And spending your time talking to him is time wasted. NOTHING good can possibly come from this relationship, and if he's willing to fight with you infront of your own PARENTS then he is even more worthless. Such disrespect! For both you, and for your family!

Please, for your own sake and for the sake of those around you, do not get involved with him.

He sounds like ntohing but trouble and heart ache and you are faaaaar to young to fully understand the circumstances. He's in a gang - that's an indicator that he's violent and obviously has alot of anger issues that he can only resolve with his fists. What if he hurts you? The damage he could cause you is incredible.

Please, you deserve much more than that! Don't settle for a man who will make trouble for you, no matter how good-looking and suave and cavlier he may be, if he's an asshole in the end it will never bode well.

You deserve someone who can love you, treat you with dignity and respect, and if I were you, I would wait a few more years to allow those around you to mature a little.
 
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Do NOT even fret about him...your 12, or 13 you have so much time to grow up and meet guys...enjoy being young....trust me they come and go and when they go someone better comes along...much better...lol....be strong and forget him...
 
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