As you can see in my picture, I have chubby cheeks or some have said high cheek bone.
I have never in my life had some say "you have a fat face" and I thought it was rude when she said it because "fat" is known to be a derogatory term.
Here is What Happened:
My brother's girlfriend just had a baby and she said that my niece has my fat face. It took me by surprise that anyone would say anything to me face in a negative way...to my face. I feel that she is always saying something negative about my appearance as well as other women that I find to be very attractive.
I could just as easily point out her flaws and tell that she is the most unattractive woman I have ever seen- I literally thought that when I seen her - but I would never tell someone that.
I have never confronted her on her childish behavior simply because I'm a grown woman and I conduct myself in such a way. I think her behavior is sophomoric and I can't blame it on her age, 21, because I have much younger women than her who acts like an adult and don't have teenage tendencies. I'm knocking on 30 and I don't have time for kid drama.
Was it rude of her or am I over reacting?
I have never in my life had some say "you have a fat face" and I thought it was rude when she said it because "fat" is known to be a derogatory term.
Here is What Happened:
My brother's girlfriend just had a baby and she said that my niece has my fat face. It took me by surprise that anyone would say anything to me face in a negative way...to my face. I feel that she is always saying something negative about my appearance as well as other women that I find to be very attractive.
I could just as easily point out her flaws and tell that she is the most unattractive woman I have ever seen- I literally thought that when I seen her - but I would never tell someone that.
I have never confronted her on her childish behavior simply because I'm a grown woman and I conduct myself in such a way. I think her behavior is sophomoric and I can't blame it on her age, 21, because I have much younger women than her who acts like an adult and don't have teenage tendencies. I'm knocking on 30 and I don't have time for kid drama.
Was it rude of her or am I over reacting?