digitalbrew
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So, I am the current care taker of my nieces. Often times, they are such sweet kids with loving personalities. However, there are just this instances that you get to see how lazy/spoiled they are- making a mess of their stuff and not putting it back, having the help (who is much smaller and thinner than them) carry their bags upstairs, ordering the help to do this and that which they are very well capable of doing.
Unfortunately, I am not their mom so I'm always hesitant on whether to interfere and correct them or not. My sister gets full of it sometimes that she will get angry at them for not listening to her as well. And this makes me feel guilty for not doing my part as an aunt. They can sometimes test my patience and I have to correct their bad behavior. As they are growing, it's becoming more difficult for me to know when to stop disciplining them.
Have you ever been caught in such a situation? How do you do it? How do you know when enough is enough?
Unfortunately, I am not their mom so I'm always hesitant on whether to interfere and correct them or not. My sister gets full of it sometimes that she will get angry at them for not listening to her as well. And this makes me feel guilty for not doing my part as an aunt. They can sometimes test my patience and I have to correct their bad behavior. As they are growing, it's becoming more difficult for me to know when to stop disciplining them.
Have you ever been caught in such a situation? How do you do it? How do you know when enough is enough?