Lottie
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What are they?
People who look after your children in your home aren't registered with Government regulatory bodies and will almost certainly have no childcare qualifications. Therefore, it's a good idea for any of these carers to be able to call on a responsible adult if necessary. There are some fees involved with all.
An au pair is an overseas visitor who comes on a cultural-exchange programme to learn another language and help out in a family home. She, or he, will live in your house as part of your family and is entitled to a private bedroom. An au pair is normally expected to work between 25 to 30 hours per week, depending on the country of origin, and must have time off to attend language classes.
A home helper is someone who lives in your house and helps you look after your children. She, or he, normally speaks English as a first language and works up to a maximum of 45 hours per week. She, or he, is entitled to a private bedroom and proper time off. They usually work in families where one parent is at home.
A babysitter is someone who comes to your house occasionally to look after your children while you go out for a short period. She, or he, should not be younger than 16.
Ages covered
All ages for short periods, but they shouldn't be left in sole charge of preschool children.
Pros
An au pair or mother's help can help with light housework, taking and collecting children from school, or looking after them for short periods after school.
An au pair or mother's help is a 'built-in' babysitter, although you must agree terms and conditions for this beforehand. Don't expect them to babysit for more than two or three nights a week.
An au pair can be a personal 'ambassador' for their country for your child.
A good au pair or home helper can become a close friend.
Cons
It's likely that an au pair, home helper or babysitter won't be qualified. They won't be registered, either.
They aren't suitable for full-time, sole-charge childcare.
You may find it hard having someone else living in your house.
They may be great play companions, but not know how to cope when the going gets tough. It's your responsibility to make sure they know the basics of childcare and first aid, and have suitable back-up in case of emergency.
With an au pair, there may be language or communication difficulties.
You'll almost certainly need to provide some emotional support for a young au pair - just think of yourself at 18!
Typical costs
Around £50 'pocket money' per week for an au pair, plus accommodation and food. Between around £160 and £200 (net) per week for a live-in home helper, plus accommodation and food.
Babysitting fees should be negotiated between you and your babysitter and can vary widely - ask other parents what the going rate is in your area. You may also want to provide a meal or some snacks.
Where to find one
Agencies - look in your local phone book for an au pair or home helper agency. Choose one that's a member of either the International Au Pair Association (IAPA) or the Recruitment and Employment Confederation (REC), as such agencies will have vetted their applicants.
Magazines and newspapers - many home helpers advertise in newspapers, or you can place your own ad. Always check references and speak to previous employers.
Other parents - nothing beats a personal recommendation; ask other parents if they know of a good local au pair, home helper agency or babysitter.
More info: Source
People who look after your children in your home aren't registered with Government regulatory bodies and will almost certainly have no childcare qualifications. Therefore, it's a good idea for any of these carers to be able to call on a responsible adult if necessary. There are some fees involved with all.
An au pair is an overseas visitor who comes on a cultural-exchange programme to learn another language and help out in a family home. She, or he, will live in your house as part of your family and is entitled to a private bedroom. An au pair is normally expected to work between 25 to 30 hours per week, depending on the country of origin, and must have time off to attend language classes.
A home helper is someone who lives in your house and helps you look after your children. She, or he, normally speaks English as a first language and works up to a maximum of 45 hours per week. She, or he, is entitled to a private bedroom and proper time off. They usually work in families where one parent is at home.
A babysitter is someone who comes to your house occasionally to look after your children while you go out for a short period. She, or he, should not be younger than 16.
Ages covered
All ages for short periods, but they shouldn't be left in sole charge of preschool children.
Pros
An au pair or mother's help can help with light housework, taking and collecting children from school, or looking after them for short periods after school.
An au pair or mother's help is a 'built-in' babysitter, although you must agree terms and conditions for this beforehand. Don't expect them to babysit for more than two or three nights a week.
An au pair can be a personal 'ambassador' for their country for your child.
A good au pair or home helper can become a close friend.
Cons
It's likely that an au pair, home helper or babysitter won't be qualified. They won't be registered, either.
They aren't suitable for full-time, sole-charge childcare.
You may find it hard having someone else living in your house.
They may be great play companions, but not know how to cope when the going gets tough. It's your responsibility to make sure they know the basics of childcare and first aid, and have suitable back-up in case of emergency.
With an au pair, there may be language or communication difficulties.
You'll almost certainly need to provide some emotional support for a young au pair - just think of yourself at 18!
Typical costs
Around £50 'pocket money' per week for an au pair, plus accommodation and food. Between around £160 and £200 (net) per week for a live-in home helper, plus accommodation and food.
Babysitting fees should be negotiated between you and your babysitter and can vary widely - ask other parents what the going rate is in your area. You may also want to provide a meal or some snacks.
Where to find one
Agencies - look in your local phone book for an au pair or home helper agency. Choose one that's a member of either the International Au Pair Association (IAPA) or the Recruitment and Employment Confederation (REC), as such agencies will have vetted their applicants.
Magazines and newspapers - many home helpers advertise in newspapers, or you can place your own ad. Always check references and speak to previous employers.
Other parents - nothing beats a personal recommendation; ask other parents if they know of a good local au pair, home helper agency or babysitter.
More info: Source