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Advice needed about boys quick!!

Discussion in 'Teens Section' started by amz553, Sep 4, 2016.

  1. amz553

    amz553 New Member

    Hey guys,
    um so this is my first crazy crisis and i need some serious help rn. If you dont care or gonna hate please dont comment ;)

    so um i have a crush in these two boys. I like one for his looks and one for his personality. We all do martial arts together and stuff and in the summer we go to a boot camp type thing and all hang out. One of these boys, we will name him S and we have been training together for like 3 years. He lives round the corner from me and he goes to the school directly behind mine. He is a really sweet guy and hes always looking out for everyone. He is totally someone i would date, however he is 2 years older than me. And i guess that isnt really a crazy age difference but we are in our teens so it looks a bit different; im 13 hes 15. :/

    The other guy, lets call him M, hes a new kid and he is sooooo fit. he looks like shawn mendes and cameron dallas rolled in one, but younger. However i dont really know anything about him and i have never really had the guts to start an actually conversation with him. Again a problem is, hes 16.

    Im tall for my age and my body is really matured and everything so i look about their age, but i dont think it works like that does it?? Im really attrackted to both of them and I think they both might like me too. Im more attracted to M in terms of looks but sometimes i feel like i really want to be with S. They dont know how i feel about them and its probably not very realistic either but i feel like me and S could get somewhere??

    Im sorry this was so long to read and that ive made a few spelling mistakes but im kinda stressed about this whole thing and I really need help .

    Thanks xx:)
  2. Gabriellea

    Gabriellea Active Member

    Teen crushes will happen and you are just experiencing the realities of figuring out who you fancy more and whether looks do matter more than someone being funny or kind.

    Just enjoy yourself, but I would look at who you feel comfortable with more as a friend and then take it from there. Boys do tend to mature later, and teenage years are fun, but can be confusing. If I look back, I can still remember my crushes, but it's about company and having good company.

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